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Sowing Wild Oats
Sandra Burkholder
July 21, 2025
Sowing Wild Oats in Lancaster County: What It Really Means in Amish & Mennonite Culture
If you’ve spent any time around Lancaster County—or if you’ve got friends with deep Mennonite or Amish roots—you’ve probably heard someone mention a young person "sowing their wild oats." But what does that actually mean here, in this unique mix of rural life, conservative faith, and cultural tradition?
The Phrase & Its Origins
"Sowing wild oats" is an old expression referring to a season of youthful rebellion, testing limits, and making choices outside what’s expected. In general American culture, it might mean partying, dating around, or drifting off course before settling down. But in the context of Lancaster’s Amish and Mennonite communities, it holds a more layered meaning.
For the Amish: Rumspringa & the Space to Choose
For Old Order Amish teens, "sowing wild oats" is often tied to Rumspringa—a period beginning around age 16 when they are allowed more freedom to explore life outside the Ordnung (church rules). They might buy a car, wear English clothes, have a phone, or even party with friends. It’s a misunderstood season—many outsiders think it’s wild and lawless—but the goal isn’t chaos. It’s actually a bridge to commitment. Amish youth are allowed a taste of the outside world so they can consciously choose whether or not to join the church as adults.
That said, how wild Rumspringa gets varies hugely depending on the family, church district, and the individual. Some kids don’t go far at all. Others really do flirt with the edge—clubbing, drinking, dating broadly. The community quietly tolerates it to a point, as long as the young person eventually returns and commits to the faith.
Among Mennonites: A Quiet Drift, Not a Rumspringa
Mennonites are more diverse—ranging from ultra-conservative groups to progressive, modern ones. There’s no official Rumspringa, but there is still a sense of “wandering” during late teen or early adult years. For conservative Mennonite families, “sowing wild oats” might look like listening to secular music, wearing trendier clothes, going to college, or dating someone outside the faith.
The stakes can feel high. Mennonite culture values community, modesty, and a strong work ethic. So when a young person steps out of those norms—even in small ways—it can stir gossip or concern. But most families know that youthful independence is part of growth. Many young Mennonites return to their roots in some form, even if their faith expression looks a bit different than their parents’.
The Deeper Thread: Freedom Before Commitment
Whether Amish or Mennonite, there’s an unspoken understanding here in Lancaster that young people might step outside the lines before choosing the path of tradition. Parents may not approve of every choice, but many give grace for this season. It’s not about giving up their values—it’s about letting young people test them.
In a way, "sowing wild oats" in these communities is less about rebellion and more about discernment. It’s a cultural space where teens can ask: Is this who I want to be? Do I really believe this, or am I just doing what I was told?
And in Lancaster County, where faith and lifestyle are deeply intertwined, those questions matter.
8 Fun Facts About Lancaster, PA That Might Surprise You
Lancaster, PA is full of quiet charm, winding roads, and rolling farmland—but don’t let the peaceful vibe fool you. This place is full of quirky facts, rich history, and local gems worth sharing. Whether you’re a longtime local or a first-time visitor, here are a few fun facts about Lancaster County that’ll make you smile (and maybe plan your next day trip):
1. We Were the Capital… Twice!
Okay, not for long—but Lancaster was the capital of Pennsylvania in 1799, and for one glorious day in 1777, it even served as the capital of the entire United States when Congress fled British-occupied Philadelphia. Bet your big-city friends can’t say that.
2. The Amish Population Is the Largest in the Country
You’ve probably seen the buggies, roadside produce stands, and barefoot kids riding bikes. But did you know Lancaster County is home to the largest Amish community in the U.S.? Their influence is woven into the fabric of the county—from food to craftsmanship to a pace of life that reminds us to slow down.
3. The Great Whoopie Pie Debate
Is the whoopie pie from Lancaster or Maine? We say Lancaster, hands down. Chocolate cake. Marshmallow filling. Simple. Sweet. Delicious. You'll find them everywhere—from farmers markets to family-run bakeries.
4. Central Market Is Older Than the United States
The Lancaster Central Market has been operating continuously since 1730, making it the oldest public market in the country. Inside, you’ll find a mix of old-school Pennsylvania Dutch treats and global flavors that reflect today’s Lancaster.
5. You Can Ride a Steam Train Through the Countryside
The Strasburg Rail Road is the oldest operating short-line railroad in America. It’s a nostalgic ride past cornfields, cows, and—you guessed it—more buggies. It’s one of those things you just have to do at least once.
6. Broadway Meets the Bible at Sight & Sound
Located in Ronks, Sight & Sound Theatre puts on massive Bible-based musicals with live animals, dazzling effects, and original music. Even if musicals aren’t your thing, you’ll walk out impressed.
7. Cheese and Pretzel Heaven
Lancaster isn’t just about scrapple and shoo-fly pie. We’re also home to Caputo Brothers Creamery (hello, fresh mozzarella) and the Julius Sturgis Pretzel Bakery, the oldest pretzel bakery in America.
8. Covered Bridges for Days
Lancaster County has 29 covered bridges—more than any other county in Pennsylvania. They’re scenic, photo-worthy, and just plain cool. Grab a friend, plan a little drive, and cross a few off your list.
Whether you’re strolling a historic market, biting into a whoopie pie, or waving at an Amish buggy on your commute, Lancaster has a way of sneaking into your heart. That’s why I love it here—and why I love sharing it with you.
Want more hidden gems and day trip ideas? Explore the rest of WayfaringLancaster.com or shoot me a message—especially if you’re thinking about making Lancaster your next home.
Want more local insights on Lancaster life, culture, and community? Check out my other posts on WayfaringLancaster.com where we explore everything from covered bridges and coffee shops to local traditions and luxury homes tucked into the countryside
How to Hang Pictures Without Damaging Your Walls
Because patched holes and peeling paint aren't part of your design plan.
Whether you're styling a luxury home for showings or just want to refresh a space, hanging art can totally transform a room. But what if you’re renting, staging, or just trying to avoid a wall full of holes? Here’s how to hang pictures securely—with minimal to no damage.
1. Use Adhesive Hooks or Strips
For lightweight art or photos:
Command Strips are your best friend. They hold well and come off clean when removed properly.
Be sure to check the weight limit—most hold between 4 to 16 lbs.
Press and hold for at least 30 seconds for a secure bond.
Tip: These work best on clean, smooth walls (not textured).
2. Try Hook-and-Loop Velcro Systems
Great for canvas art and fabric hangings:
Velcro-style systems are ideal when you want flexibility to adjust later.
They prevent shifting and are easy to reposition without tools.
3. Use a Tension Rod or Art Ledge
For multiple pieces or gallery walls:
Hang a slim tension rod between two walls and use clips or wire to display photos.
Or install a floating picture ledge—minimal screws, more flexibility, and super chic.
4. Lean Art Instead of Hanging
If you have a large piece:
Lean it against the wall on a console, mantle, or shelf.
Layer it with smaller frames for a styled look.
5. Use Small Nails or Specialty Hooks
If you must use nails:
Use picture-hanging hooks with angled nails. They make a tiny hole but hold more weight than a straight nail.
Stick with nails under 1” and use a level to avoid re-hanging (and re-nailing).
A Note for Homeowners Selling or Staging:
If you’re prepping a home for sale, opt for temporary options. Buyers focus on walls—and patched holes or mismatched touch-up paint can be distracting.
Bottom Line:
You don’t have to sacrifice your walls to have a beautifully decorated space. With the right tools, you can hang pictures safely, stylishly, and stress-free.
Lancaster County Market Snapshot (May–June 2025)
Sales & Prices:
Closed sales in May were up ~18% year-over-year, with pendings rising ~10% and median sold prices increasing ~4–5% (≈ $345K) .
In June, Redfin reports Lancaster County's median home sale price at $360K, up 5% YoY, with 520 homes sold in June—an 18% increase from 2024
Inventory & Market Pace:
Inventory remains limited: back in early July, ~931 homes were listed—70% more than May, but still constrained
Local data show just 1.5 months of inventory—well below a balanced 4–6 months, so it’s technically still a seller’s market
Average days on market: about 114 days for active listings, but recently sold homes close in ~20–23 days, signaling strong demand.
Pricing Pressure:
List-to-sales ratio is about 102–103%, meaning houses typically sell above asking price
However, Redfin notes a slight cooldown: sale-to-list dropped down to ~99.5%, and only ~34% of homes sold above list (versus nearly half in the county)
Is It Still a Seller’s Market?
It’s easing—but not gone:
Inventory remains historically tight at ~1.5 months, so prices are still being driven up by competition.
But small softening signs include longer sell times and fewer bidding wars on average.
Bottom line? Still favors sellers—but shifting gradually toward balance as more homes are listed and buyers pause for higher interest rates.
Role of Interest Rates
Mortgage rates remain elevated compared to pandemic lows—keeping some buyers sidelined.
Nationally, reports indicate the market is becoming more balanced: “buyers no longer outbidding each other…waiving traditional contingencies”
Locally, even with rate pressure, sales are holding steady—suggesting persistent demand amid shifting affordability
Takeaway for Buyers & Sellers
Scenario | Snapshot |
|---|---|
Buyers | Inventory is rising and competition cooling slightly—so it’s a more accessible time to buy. Still act quickly though; good homes are moving in ~3 weeks. |
Sellers | Demand is strong and prices remain favorable, but don’t expect runaway bidding wars—pricing competitively will still win attention. |
Everyone | Keep an eye on interest rate movements—they’re a wildcard that could tip the market further toward buyers or send momentum back to sellers. |
Sandra Burkholder, EXP Realty
Licensed Real Estate Agent since 2000
Serving Lancaster, Chester, Berks, and York County, PA
Connecting you to your dream home and the heart of the community with a professional yet approachable touch.
Not intended to solicit any properties already listed for sale with another real estate agent. If your home is already for sale, then please disregard this message.
