Lancaster Charm. Elevated Living.

Thoughtful reflections, local notes, and quiet discoveries - curated with care.

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Sandra Burkholder
January 13, 2026

Local Notes

The Pennsylvania Farm Show — Pennsylvania’s State Fair™ is one of the largest indoor agricultural events in America. Admission is free, and the show offers something for everyone: farmers, families, and “foodies” alike. 

We look forward to celebrating Pennsylvania agriculture the 2026 PA Farm Show from January 10-17, 2026.

The Wayfarer’s Journal

Turning Stumbles into Strength: A Growth Mindset

A Tale of Two Women

Imagine two women walking up a broad marble staircase in a bustling public space — both dressed elegantly, both wearing heels. The kind of moment that’s supposed to look effortless.

The first woman missteps. Her heel catches the edge of a stair, she wobbles, catches herself, and keeps right on going — chin up, stride steady, conversation unbroken. Within seconds, the moment passes, and no one remembers it even happened.

Now picture the second woman. She trips on the very same stair. But instead of recovering quickly, she pauses. She looks around to see who noticed. Faces turn. People whisper. “Did she fall? Is she okay?” The air fills with awkward attention, and suddenly her stumble becomes the center of the story — not because it was worse, but because it lingered.

Both women faced the same obstacle, but their mindsets determined the outcome.

Life Happens — Growth Is a Choice

There’s a quote by Charles R. Swindoll that says:

“Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.”

I’ve always loved that line — but it takes on new meaning when you picture it in motion. A growth mindset means choosing how to react when life doesn’t go as planned. It’s about learning to rise, not just recover.

This Weeks’s Reflection

From the Journal

Stillness Is Not Stagnation, Pause If Not Defeat

Stillness is not Stagnation, Pause if Not Defeat . Metaphorically, there are seasons in life when movement slows—for something more deliberate.

wayfaringlancaster.com/2026/01/13/stillness-is-not-stagnation-pause-if-not-defeat

The Little Things: Why Everyday Ethics Matter More Than You Think - Wayfaring Lancaster

Everyday decisions shape our integrity. Small compromises can erode trust, proving that everyday ethics matter more than you think. Ethics matter.

wayfaringlancaster.com/2025/10/21/the-little-things-why-everyday-ethics-matter-more-than-you-think

A Small Discovery

WAYFARING DISCOVERIES

This month, we wandered through Lancaster for great recommendations.

Dosie Dough - Fresh Breads, Bagels & Coffee in Lititz

Experience the highest quality breads, bagels, and freshly brewed coffee at Dosie Dough in Lititz, PA. Stop by for made-to-order breakfast and lunch sandwiches.

dosiedough.com

Flexible Phased Solutions By Great Nation Moving

Great Nation Moving is a full-service moving company known for flexibility, thoughtful planning, and the ability to move in stages.

wayfaringlancaster.com/great-nation-moving-services

Property Management in Lancaster PA — Lancaster County Property Management

We manage rental homes in Lancaster, PA. Providing tenant screening, listing setup, rent management, and more!

www.lancoproperty.com/property-management-lancaster-pa

Wayfaring Wednesday is a Publication of Wayfaring Lancaster

Curated by Sandra Burkholder, eXp Realty

Hi! I’m Sandra Burkholder - a local Realtor, blogger, community advocate, and mom passionate about helping people experience the heart of Lancaster County, Pennsylvania.

A Final Thought

NOTE FROM WAY

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Until next Wednesday,

Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass - it’s about learning to dance in the rain” - Vivian Greene